tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410197881114403536.post8977520247331555945..comments2023-10-21T01:23:38.537+13:00Comments on Elsewoman: Thirty years onAnneEhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00869114756713316204noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410197881114403536.post-52042300921253271172015-03-14T10:42:16.193+13:002015-03-14T10:42:16.193+13:00Thank you - I feel much better now than I did when...Thank you - I feel much better now than I did when I wrote this.AnneEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00869114756713316204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410197881114403536.post-55724142748687978242015-03-06T21:07:06.948+13:002015-03-06T21:07:06.948+13:00So happy & so sad, all rolled into one. I felt...So happy & so sad, all rolled into one. I felt really touched by this Anne, especially when you said that it didn't feel right to tell people it was your anniversary. How fitting to take him flowers. Commemoration rather than celebration. Your honour Harvey so beautifully.Juliethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01542985048406828693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410197881114403536.post-28324121840358202752015-03-03T23:43:55.289+13:002015-03-03T23:43:55.289+13:00Hi Anne I first officially met you in 1986,as part...Hi Anne I first officially met you in 1986,as part of a working party and a very serious theory indeed.I was always intrigued by your happy disposition when Harvey was mentioned by all your colleagues etc,it was new life for you and everyone was so pleased............all the best 2015.......go well as you do Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410197881114403536.post-80995264410534929622015-03-03T22:47:49.069+13:002015-03-03T22:47:49.069+13:00Dear Anne,
I hope I am remembered so fondly when ...Dear Anne,<br /><br />I hope I am remembered so fondly when I pass on. He was a very dapper looking Groom. In my recollection of visiting the two of you towards the end you always seemed very attentive gentle and loving towards Harvey. And he to you. I am certain that he knew all too well how much you admired and appreciated him.<br /><br />Lots of love<br />Alastairalthecathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03638434621140500620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410197881114403536.post-39971735469813145052015-03-03T17:40:53.652+13:002015-03-03T17:40:53.652+13:00And I meant to say, I'm sure you will be conti...And I meant to say, I'm sure you will be continue to be very happy after you marry!<br />AnneEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00869114756713316204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410197881114403536.post-50730456846665480792015-03-03T17:39:33.720+13:002015-03-03T17:39:33.720+13:00Thank you so very much for writing this, I don'...Thank you so very much for writing this, I don't think I've ever had such a lovely comment. No, you aren't less of a feminist at all. The only thing that continues to distress me about living with Harvey is that I never really told him clearly how much I admired and appreciated him. When he was ill I was stupid, I supposed I would know when he was dying and would have time to say those things to him then - but of course I didn't and then it was too late.AnneEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00869114756713316204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410197881114403536.post-81169608340299246002015-03-03T17:14:34.309+13:002015-03-03T17:14:34.309+13:00Dear Anne,
I found this very moving, and my thoug...Dear Anne,<br /><br />I found this very moving, and my thoughts are with you. I am about to marry the person with whom I have shared the last ten years of my life with, and it has led to much soul-searching. The passage of Marrige Equality laws has helped, but generally I struggle with the idea of "marriage" and what it means .... not so much what it means to us, but how it is interpreted by other people. And whether I am less of a feminist because I'm the one that cleans the bathroom, remembers the birthdays and anniversaries, puts the sheets into the washing machine every Monday, etc etc You have been an inspiration to me for over 30 years ....... first when I was a scared and unconfident young undergraduate at VUW. Thanks for continuing to be an amazing role model, and may your relationship with Harvey continue to sustain and inspire you. <br />roseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com